How Not To Hit On A Stripper-Learn What Makes A Stripper Tick
I am about to teach you, how not to hit on a stripper and women in general for that matter.
The story starts with a friend of mine called Keith, who was visiting me in London for the weekend. Keith was visiting from Dubai and is a city professional, he used to work in New York , Paris, Hong Kong, Cairo and now is helping an international bank open in Dubai. He is quite well travelled and sophisticated.
Anyway, Keith went out one night to a strip club in London with a friend. Unfortunately, I wasn't with him that night, as I would have coached him. From my understanding, Keith had a few lap dances with a certain stripper and he was getting on quite well with her. He demonstrated high value to her, by showing he had an exciting life, was from out of town, worked at a bank and had a cool group of friends. He also was playful in his chat with her. The stripper soon started to be interested in him, I would say she getting attracted to him. Before he left, she gave him is phone number.
At this point, I would say Keith did a great job and finished on a high note. He got the strippers number (which they don't give out that easily). The subsequent actions he takes from this point is where it all falls apart.
Keith left the strip club at around 4AM. Instead of following normal protocol and waiting a few days to call the stripper (well to cut him some slack he was only in London for a limited time, so he didn't have a few days), he decided to call her a few hours later. That is not so much of an issue as his time in London was limited. However, the time he decided to place the call was a dreadful mistake, at around 12:30PM. Remember, this is a stripper he is calling, he left the club at 4AM. Normally, strippers will finish work around 5AM when the club closes and carry on to an after party. I doubt she got to bed before at least 8 or 9AM if not later. Calling her only a few hours later when she is still not sober is a bad idea. Anyhow, the stripper picked up, which I think is a bit of a miracle in itself. Then Keith starts the conversation by saying, "Hi, its Keith, remember me from last night?". As if she would forget having only met him a couple of hours ago. So she said yes and didn't seem interested in talking, mainly because she was half asleep and extremely hung-over. He then tried to continue the conversation but she hung up. Keith then tries to call her but she doesn't pick up. He then calls yet another time and leaves a voice mail saying "I guess you are having phone problems. This is Keith again calling you back. Call me back." (yeah right, in his dreams. How desperate and needy did that seem?)
A couple of hours later Keith sends the stripper a text, asking her if she wants to meet him and his friends up for a party. As expected he doesn't get a response. The following day Keith calls the stripper around 6PM and she surprisingly picks up and this time it seems like a big miracle that she picks up. Keith again introduces himself as Keith from the other night, remember me? She says yes and says she is busy right now and will call him back. She cuts the conversation short. Anyone want to guess what poor Keith does next? He sends her yet another text message asking her to meet him and as expected she ignored it. Keith's final draw is when he tries calling her later in the evening from a friend's phone. The stripper picks up and Keith does his now routine introduction. She promptly hangs up. At this point Keith comes to the sad realisation that is over and the stripper is not interested in him.
While we cannot but help and feel sorry for Keith in this story and some of us may actually have been in Keith's shoes before, we must understand what wrong here. I want to prevent Keith and future Keiths from making the same mistakes. I have pointed out what went wrong below:
1.When Keith got her number he finished on a high note. He should NOT have under ANY circumstances called her at 12:30PM that day. That was his kiss of death, that is where he lost a lot of value if not all of his value with her, which he respectfully gained that evening. Strippers live different lifestyles from most people. They are night birds and tend to sleep from the late morning hours well into the late after noon hours, especially the days they are working! They do not want their precious sleep to be interrupted, especially not from some random guy they met the night before at their club.
2.Keith's introduction of "Hi, I'm Keith, remember me from last night?" is pathetic. Another low value move. When calling a girl you just met, never start the conversation by saying something like that. Instead, you should carry on from a conversation or theme that you shared with her the previous night. Keith should have started the call by continuing the conversation from the previous night. Even better, if he had a pet name for her like "Naughty Bunny" then that he should say "Hi Naught Bunny, you won't believe what happened to me today. I bumped into ------ (this can be someone you were talking about in your conversation)" The conversation should never be awkward.
3.Keith's persistence of calling her and texting her multiple is a value killer. This is probably what destroyed any remote change he had after his early call. He appeared needy and desperate, two traits strippers despise. Strippers are looking for bad boys who are confident and are not needy but comfortable with the lifestyle of their girlfriend. Keith definitely didn't show any of those traits.
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About the Author:
Mark Taylor is an expert on seduction, attraction and dating. He has helped thousands of men attract beautiful women and get over their shyness and transform into confident men. If you would like to be able to seduce ANY women then check out his website at www.masteronlinedater.com